Don't be the hardest worker

Somebody quits and the role never gets backfilled. A few of their tasks land on your desk "just for now." You say, "Don't worry, I got it." A few months later you're doing pieces of 2 jobs for 1 paycheck, and nobody has ever said so out loud.

Most career advice tells you how to do more. This is the moment to do something else: notice what you've absorbed, write it down and get it recognized. You may not even realize it happened, because you've always just handled it.

This is for anyone whose job has quietly grown, and for owners whose clients do the same thing to them. It comes from 12 years in corporate, watching good people fall into this trap.

By the end, you'll know:

• how "I got it" turns into "just give it to her"
• the 3 steps to write down what you absorbed and take it to your boss
• how the same trap shows up for owners as scope creep, and how to reset it

How "I got it" snowballs

The first time you cover for a teammate, you're a team player. The second time, you're reliable. By the third, you're the person everyone hands things to, and nobody remembers handing them.

Say a teammate leaves and nobody replaces them. You cover their weekly report "until we hire." Then their client calls you. Then you inherit their Friday meeting. Nobody decided you now own all of it. It just happened one "no problem" at a time.

The same thing happens when another team hands a task back to you. You pick it up once to be helpful, and now it's yours.

The moment to speak up

When someone quits and the role isn't backfilled, you end up plugging every hole. Suddenly you're doing pieces of all of the job. That moment is your opening to revisit your scope, your title and your pay.

Don't take that on lying down. You have to speak up for your career, because nobody else will do it for you.

Step 1: Write down every task that isn't in your job description

For 2 weeks, keep a running list. Include the small stuff, since the small stuff adds up.

Say your list ends up with 4 items: the weekly client report, onboarding the 2 new hires, the Friday forecast meeting and approving vendor invoices. None of the 4 is in your job description.

Step 2: Rewrite your job description to the job you actually do

Group what's on your list. Reporting, training and approvals add up to a different role than the one you were hired for. Name that role, then write the description you'd have if you were hired for it today.

Step 3: Take it to your boss as a scope and pay conversation

Book time and bring the list and the new description. Open with the ask: "Here's what my job has become. Can we talk about scope, title and pay?"

Your boss may say not yet. If so, ask what would need to be true and when you can follow up. "Can I check back in 1, 2 or 3 months?" works, and then you put it on the calendar.

Owners get this too

Clients grow your job the same way. "Can you also just..." turns into a weekly call, then 2 extra deliverables, and the contract still says what it said on day 1. It's called scope creep.

The fix is the same. Say a client hired you for 4 deliverables a month and by spring you're sending 6. Write down the original scope, list what's been added, and offer 2 choices: go back to the original or reprice the new scope.

What to do this week

Start the list today. By the end of 2 weeks you'll have a case in writing instead of a feeling.

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